My reason for unschooling is simple (to me): I want to provide my child with the best education possible. Every single person learns differently, and it should be embraced; not forced to conform or fit into a tiny, pretty (or not so pretty) box. There are things that I want my child to learn that a traditional school system does not provide. On the other end of the spectrum, schools or government, feel they have the right to teach my child about things that I feel are my responsibility; my domain. Overall, I want my son to grow up to be a well-rounded, well-balanced, and well-adjusted adult.
I chose unschooling because a traditional school set up is not working for us. Bringing that spirit into my home is not what I want for either of us. It would be painful, and I might as well keep him in public school! If you have a high-spirited, challenging child, I’m sure you can see clearly why that wouldn’t work. After a few years of research, and a really bad year in first grade (can this school year be over yet?), I prayed exhaustively on the matter. Finally, I came across this method called unschooling. From what I understand of unschooling, it is the exact opposite of everything I know about school. Unschooling will allow me to provide the kind of education and educational experience that I want for Jay. One that fosters curiosity, moves at his pace, allows him to express himself creatively and freely, to explore the possibilities or impossibilities, and allows him to learn in a way that is natural to him! I cannot think of a more organic or natural way of learning.
I am totally looking forward to the learning experience myself, and all of the bonding we will be doing. I am excited, nervous and anxious to unschool because it is basically the opposite of everything that I know about school. I feel that I will be learning just as much as my son throughout the process.
Let the journey begin!